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Imagine
that you are having difficulties with a loved one, such as your mother or
father, husband or wife, lover or friend. How helpful and revealing it can be to
consider the other person not in his or her "role" of mother or
father or husband, but simply as another "you," another human being,
with the same feelings as you, the same desire for happiness, the same fear of
suffering. Thinking of the other one as a real person, exactly the same as you,
will open your heart to him or her and give you more insight into how to
help.
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